How To Throw a Scary Good — Yet Sophisticated — Halloween Party

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Consider it an adult trick-or-treat night.

Jack-O-Lanterns, cobwebs, and bewitching accessories are some of the first things that come to mind when you think of a Halloween party. Purple and orange accents can create a delightfully dark atmosphere, but sometimes it can start to feel hokey. After all, how many skeletons can one have in one room before it starts to feel silly? 

There’s no shame in loving Halloween as an adult, especially because it’s a fun time to show off your creativity and dress up in a funky costume without judgment. Perhaps you’re the type to play Monster Mash on repeat and cover your home in pumpkins the second it turns October 1, or maybe you prefer something more subtle, like floating candles over the mantle and some moody decorations. 

Toeing the line between festive and corny can be hard, which is why we tapped celebrations expert (and friend of Katie’s) Darcy Miller to give us some tips on how to throw the perfect Halloween bash. She’s here to help us navigate how to throw a festive yet chic celebration that you and your loved ones are sure to enjoy. Here are her tips for throwing an adult Halloween party. 

Halloween Party Ideas and Tips for Adults

Take a minimalist approach 

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Even your mantle can become a haunted centerpiece. Here, Miller uses black fabric to create a dramatic drapery moment. Gold, black, and white accents keep things interesting without feeling cheap or cheesy, and things like plastic snakes or bugs can easily be transformed with a coat of spray paint. 

“If you have time (and some spidey skills), you can even make your own gold spider web,” Miller says. 

Deck out your drinks

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Adding critters and crawlies to your food setup adds a fun element, too. If you’ll be serving drinks, consider adding custom labels to wine bottles or liquor bottles. Miller has some available for free on her website. “You can download these labels and let guests pick their ‘poison,’” she says. “A festive drink could even be as simple as dropping olive ‘eyeballs’ into martinis.”

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Use what you have

If you’ve already decorated for autumn, chances are you have a few pumpkins or gourds lying around. “I love decorating with gourds,” she says. “They’re more unexpected than pumpkins, and when Halloween is over, you can take off the add-ons, and leave the gourds in place until Thanksgiving. You can even serve dips in gourds for a fun seasonal appetizer.”

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Miller suggests adding a pair of eyes to them if you want up the creepy factor. “Download our eye templates, then attach them to gourd centerpieces with glue dots or tape,” she suggests. “You can add a pair of eyes, a single one for a cyclops gourd, or give a gourd a third eye. You can also attach googly eye stickers or draw eyes on yourself with a marker.” 

By adding small details to an everyday item, you have a brand new decoration that costs next to nothing to make. Plus, it’s easy to remove the eyes when the party is over. 

The most important thing, though? “Have fun, and take the pressure off!” Miller says. “There are so many fun and easy ways to celebrate Halloween. Take store-bought cupcakes, add bat wings, and stick on some candy eyes. Make a festive gallery wall with decal frames and add some ‘scary’ art.”

It doesn’t have to be complicated, and what matters most is having a good time with your guests. “It’s about connecting, and you don’t need anything complicated to do that,” she says.

Want some more inspiration? Here are some products we’d include at our Halloween party.

Halloween Party Essentials

Pottery Barn Jupiter Hobnail Glass

Pottery Barn

These dark glasses can be used year-round, but they have an especially haunting quality about them when it’s Halloween. The hobnail detail is a gorgeous textural element, but it also makes it easier to hold onto if your hands are covered in body paint or you’re wearing gloves as a part of your costume.

$48 for 6 at PB

Erlene Home Spider Table Runner

Amazon

If you can’t spin your own web, store bought will do. This lacy spider web table runner is subtle enough to keep out all month long, and we love the small spiders that dangle over the edge of the table. 

$12 at Amazon

BalsaCircle Charger Plates

Walmart

For those hosting a dinner party, chargers are a simple way to dress up a plain old plate. This metallic orange one is reminiscent of Halloween, but it could also be used later in the year for Thanksgiving. It’s all about versatility! 

$19 for 6 at Walmart

Anthropologie Lucky Marble Serving Board

Anthropologie

Maybe you plan to have a butter board or charcuterie platter at your gathering, so make sure it fits the theme, too. This celestial board feels a bit witchy, and it’s cute enough to display in a china cabinet when not in use. 

$58 at Anthropologie

Cauldron Serving Bowl

Crate and Barrel

Guests will love serving themselves “potions” from this cauldron. Use it for a large batch cocktail and add a ladle for easy serving, or you can fill it with chips or candy so people can easily grab a handful of either. 

$10 at Crate&Barrel

Floating Candles

Amazon

We’ve seen this decoration trending all over TikTok, and it’s incredible how an easy project can make such a large impact. If you already have some battery powered candles, tie some fishing line to them and hang them around your house for an easy DIY. Alternatively, you can opt for a pre-made set like this one. 

$23 at Amazon

Franka Candelabra

Anthropologie

There’s something about the organic shape and dark glaze on this candelabra that feels perfect. Add some colorful candles to make it stand out, or lean into the dark theme and opt for black candles to complete the look. 

$38 at Anthropologie

Our Place Midi Plates

Our Place

Paper plates will do the trick, but for a more environmentally friendly option, go for reusable plates. This set from Our Place is the perfect size for snacks, and they have raised edges to keep dips and sauces from dripping.

$37 at Our Place